Before you continue reading STOP and look at your hands..
My heart dropping moment was when I noticed the old lady hands typing at my computer. I'm only in my 30's so why did my hands look like they were approaching retirement? The answer is plain and simple...NEGLECT. Our hands go through a lot during the day and are easily overlooked. Think about it. We work, cook, clean, style hair, give kiddie baths, bite our nails etc. The list goes on and on.
I recently discovered the True Blue hand scrub and lotion system while shopping at Bath and Body Works and let me tell ya.....I am in love!!!
First, I used the 60 second manicure hand scrub and followed up with the hand softening lotion. My hands now look youthful and feels silky smooth. I highly recommend this product. These items are currently on sale at Bath and Body Works; Buy Two, Get One Free.
Here are a few additional tips on how to Avoid "Old Lady" hands.
Remember to moisturize.
Use glove while cleaning or using harsh chemicals.
Whether at the salon or at home, give yourself a manicure. Keep those fingernails looking neat and healthy. Be sure to push those cuticles back, file, buff and apply nail polish or clear coat.
Apply Sunscreen when needed.
Now go and take care of those hands!!! (PS I am not getting paid to endorse these products.)
Praying this post has helped to make your living your life a little easier :)
I don't consider myself to be an extreme couponer. Unless it's for church or charity, I don't see the need to coupon for 100 sticks of deodorant and 75 bottles of soda (besides that has to be murder on the kidneys). For me, it's all about cutting down on our grocery bill while building a reasonable stock pile based on my family's needs. Since we started couponing, our grocery bill has reduced by 60%. Couponing has also helped us to upgrade to purchasing name brand items for less the cost of generic. Extreme couponing is not for everyone but saving money is!
Please click on the link to watch my Basics to Couponing Tutorial.
It might just be me but I found this week's deals at Publix to be a little scarce. Listed below are some of the coupon deals I found.
Publix Deals
Uncle Bens Rice BOGO $1.49 (You need to purchase four boxes) $1.00 off of Three (Print One)
Wanna learn how to make your own kitchen food containers like these at little to no cost?
Click to watch the video and discover a Life Made Easier DIY project. Also learn how you can enter to win in this month's giveaway (announced at end of video)
Hello Family! I just cut my grocery bill at Publix by nearly 60%. Total before coupons and savings was $86.71. I only paid $35.73! Links to coupons below. Please note: You will need to register at some of the websites in order to access coupon.
Totino's Pizza Four for $5.00(This deal will use both a manufacturer and publix coupon. You will need to purchase five pizzas)Final Cost: $3.90 for all five!!!
Buy 3 Totino's Party Pizza Get One Free (This coupon can be found in the Publix Happy Easter Coupon Booklet or you may register online at www.publix.com to use coupon electronically)
$1.50 off Any One Magnum 3pk or Magnum Mini 6pk (Coupon found in Happy Easter Coupon Booklet or you may register online at www.publix.com to use coupon electronically)
Windex Touch UP $2.99 (This deal will use both a manufacturer and publix coupon) Final Cost: $1.99cent!
$5.00 off Two Mix or Match Vitamins or Supplements (Coupon found in Special SavingsCoupon Booklet or you may register online at www.publix.com to use coupon electronically)
Every family should have a car kit. They have been life savers for a many of our road side emergencies. Watch the video below for suggestions on what you should and should not store in your family car kit.
TAG! Your It! I love to know what you have in your Car Kit!
Sorry..my kids opened one of the Paper Towels before I could take this pic :)
Sorry I am late on this post. I had a very busy week last week but check out this deal from Publix! Hurry it ends tomorrow! I only paid $7.59. A total savings of $18.20!!!
Wish-Bone Dressing BOGO Free $2.65 .50 Cent off One (Print Two) Final Price $1.65 for Both
Brawny Premium Performance Towels BOGO Free $1.99 $1.00 off Two (Print one) Final Price .99 Cent for Both
Okay, I know that I am barely getting in under the wire with this post since Valentine's Day is tomorrow but these cards are so easy to make it should be no problem; especially for those of you who are on a budget. I found this cute idea on Pinterest. Special thanks to my hubby who helped me paint with these cards. I am making these for the Marriage Conference at our church this weekend. Let Get Started.
Print Your Card. Write in Valentine's Gift Options (I printed mine on card.)
Mix One Part Detergent with Two Parts Paint. A little really does go a long way. I used a water bottle cap to hold paint.
Color Over Hearts With White Crayon. (This protects writing from paint)
Paint Card. You will need to paint generously over the wording (dabbing the paint helps). Don't worry, it will dry flat. Card will need to dry for one hour before it's ready.
My business as a blogger and life coach is also dedicated to supporting families like you. Trying to balance career and family life can be an uphill battle. My blog, www.theelitelady.blogspot.com, provides advice, tips and ideas on what families can do to run smoother, happier households.
I recently received a request to do a video on how to prepare your daughter for her period. I was more than happy to oblige this request. Please watch and enjoy this fun yet informational video. And be sure to leave your thoughts and comments!
Special thanks to Alejandra of Home Organized for sharing her video "How to Fold T-shirts" on youtube. Although, I didn't have the t-shirt folding tool she used, I was still able to fold my husband's t-shirts in the same manner! I was also able to combined two drawers of t-shirts into one leaving him with extra drawer space. As you can see, my husband's t-shirts are much neater and easier to choose from!!!
UPDATE: If you would like for me to do a video showing you my folding method without the tool, leave a comment and I''ll get on it!!!
Today I bought all of this from Publix and I only paid $2.44!!! Now you can too!!!
The coupons below will allow you to purchase four containers of Welch's juice and two boxes of South Beach Bars for under a dollar!!!
Here's How..
I was able to purchase six 64 oz containers of juice because I already had two Welch's coupons prior to this special. The following items are currently on sale at Publix now through January 31, 2013. The links below will allow you to purchase four containers of Welch's juice and two boxes of South Beach Bars for under a dollar!!!
Welch’s Essentials Juice Cocktail Blend BUY 1 GET 1 FREE
Or Light Concord Grape or White Grape Juice Beverage, Selected Varieties, 64-oz bot.
SAVE UP TO $3.19
South Beach Diet Cereal Bars
BUY 1 GET 1 FREE
Or Good to Go Bars, Assorted Varieties, 6.15-oz box
In this webisode of Elite Living, I show you my home project binder and how it has helped me to plan, shop and buy for my dream home. Please be sure to watch and enter to win your very own Home Project Binder!
Today
I Bought All of These Items & I Only Paid $3.69 for Everything! I saved $19.05!!!
1)Ocean Spray 100% Grapefruit Juice:Buy 2 Bottles
of Ocean Spray 100% Grapefruit Juice & get a 5lb bag of Ocean Spray Grapefruit
for FREE!!!
Ocean
Spray 100% Grapefruit Juice BOGO $2.99
Use
two $2 coupons off the purchase of one 54oz or larger 100% Grapefruit Juice
Use Publix Coupon(Found in Weekly Ad) to get FREE Fresh Red Grapefruit 5 lb when you buy
2 Ocean Spray Grapefruit Juice or Grapefruit Juice Drinks 64 oz …
PUBLIX had to apply $1
toward the remainder of my grocery bill!!!!
2)Frusion Smoothies:Get Two 4Pk Containers
of for Only $2.00.
Frusion Smoothies are currently on sale 2 for $4.00 at
Publix. Used two $1.00 off coupons. My final price was $2 for both packages.
3)Keebler Town House Crackers on sale BOGO at $
3.69. I used two 70 cent off coupons I earned from my Family Rewards account
through www.kelloggs.com.My final price was 2.29 for both boxes.
Disclaimer: I am not a dietitian and my recipes have not been certified by a nutritionist. My recipes are not totally carb-free. However, I am blessed to report we have begun to lose weight since we've reduced our carb intake. I'm not trying to diet as much as I am trying to change the way I eat. My hubby and I are low carbing it by removing a carb at each meal. For example, no toast at breakfast and no rice or potatos at dinner. Whenever we do eat them (carbs), they are low in portion amounts. Once again, along with exercise, this is working for us. It might not work for you. So you decide what's best.
I must say, these stuffed peppers are low in carbs and are slap yo momma good!
Ingredients
4 Bell Peppers (washed with tops and seeds removed)
1 lb Jimmy Dean Maple Sausage
1cup (divided into two equal parts) Shredded Cheese (we used velveeta queso blanco)
1/4 tsp Chili powder
1/4 cup Bacon Bits
1/4 cup Fried Onions (optional)
1/3 cup Sun dried tomato
Parsley
Preheat oven to 350 degrees.
On medium heat, crumble and cook sausage until done. In a separate bowl combine chili powder, 1/2 cup cheese, bacon bits, parsley and sun dried tomato. Mix well.
Spoon mixture in pepper halves.
Top with fried onions and remaining cheese.
Bake for 30 minutes and Serve!
My goal is to get my cheese a little more bubbly the next time I make these;)
My husband decided to do something a little different with our grits one morning while cooking breakfast. It's become the only way we eat them now! His original recipe called for tomato instead of bell pepper but I wanted to do something a little different. I decided to call these "Bello" grits because of the bell pepper and onion topping:)
Prepare sausage as directed on package. Prepare grits as directed.
Add olive oil to skillet on low to medium heat. Add bouillon, bell peppers and onion. Saute for approximately 6 to 10 minutes. While cooking the veggies, flip them with a wooden spoon often to evenly heat them until softened. Then top onto grits.
I made this Beef Stew for Sunday dinner. I was surprised at the number of requests for the recipe after I posted a pic on Facebook. I found myself having a "uh-oh" moment because I didn't measure a single ingredient. This warm and tasty crock pot meal was made based on love and not measurements. So here is what I can do, I am posting the ingredients and cooking method I used. I suggest you measure the ingredients based on your tastes and amount of servings needed. The full effect of the flavor is in the gravy made from the stock.
Prep Time for this meal is about 30 minutes.
Ingredients
Beef Stew Meat
Red Potatoes (in medium sized cubes)
Carrots (chopped)
Large Onion
Chicken Bouillon Cubes (Yes I said Chicken)
Meat Tenderizer
Black Pepper
WorcestershireSauce
Dale Seasoning Sauce
Flour
Turn crock pot on to low or high heat (Consider how long it will be before you serve dinner when deciding)Wash meat and add to crock pot filled with two thirds water. Although, some people choose not to, I prefer to change water before adding the other ingredients. I do this by boiling the stew meat for about thirty minutes to allow the fat to surface in the water. Then I carefully pour out the water and refill the crock pot three quarters full with hot water (again the water needed is based on your serving amount).
Add bouillon cubes, meat tenderizer, black pepper, potatoes, carrots and onion. Cook until meat and veggies are tender.
Pour stock from meat and veggies into a sauce pan on medium heat. Season to taste with Worcestershire and Dale seasoning sauce. In a separate bowl and with a fork, mix one cup water and 1/2 cup flour. Blend until consistency is smooth (you don't want flour clumps in your gravy). Slowly add flour mixture into sauce pan. Remember to continue to stir as you add flour mixture. Cook gravy on low heat until thickened. Slowly pour gravy back into crock pot and slow cook for additional five minutes. Your measurements for the ingredients may be more of less so experiment and let me know how it turns out. The response to this recipe has become a solid reminder me to always measure for the readers of my blog!
You can serve this on a bed of rice, with cornbread or as a hearty soup with crackers. See below for a coupon on one of the ingredients. Enjoy!!!
I discovered this recipe on Pinterest and I received rave reviews from my family and church. These cookies are simple to make and have an addicting flavor that your loved ones will be sure to love. The first time I made them I accidently used self rising flour instead of the all purpose flour as listed in the recipe. This time I made them with all purpose flour. I realized that the cookies taste the same but puff differently while baking. I am posting pics of both options. You decided which one you like best. Now for the recipe...
Ingredients Needed
3/4 Cup Unsalted Butter
3 Oz Cream Cheese
2/3 Cup Sugar
1 Tsp Vanilla
2 Cups All Purpose or Self-Rising Flour
1/2 Cup Chopped Pecans (Roasted for about five minutes in oven)
Graham Cracker Crumbs
Preheat heat oven to 375 degrees.
In a large bowl, beat butter, cream cheese and sugar. Mix in Vanilla extract.
Stir in flour until well combined.
Add Pecans
Scoop dough and form one inch balls.
Roll in Graham Cracker Crumbs.
Bake for 12 to 15 minutes or until edges are golden and tops are slightly puffed.
Baked with Self Rising Flour
Baked with All Purpose Flour
ENJOY :)
If you decide to try this recipe, let me know how it turns out!
I am no stranger to the Dreamers in Doers network. As a matter of fact, it was because of the Dreamers Network that I was able to attend a luncheon with my fellow Dreamers in New York back in 2010. I was also blessed with the life changing opportunity to recite one of my poems at the charity luncheon for the ladies of Safe Horizon Shelter. I came back from New York motivated more than ever to pursue my goals and dreams.
Then on Feb 5, 2011, my little sister Lastohia died suddenly leaving behind a husband and two little ones. My world crashed. Her cause of death is still unknown.
For the past two years, I have been struggling to get back on track. I poured myself into charity work. I figured if I could help someone else who was in pain, I could forget my own. So, my husband and I started a job training program for low income women. It was during this program that I saw first hand the need to not only provide job training but also to teach young women how to be positive productive women in the community. They didn't know how to make a house a home, parent or prepare healthy meals. They struggled with self esteem, trust and forgiveness. We were given one year to work with 27 young women in the community and it proved to be a wonderful success.
This job training program inspired me to continue my services through my blogs and online webisodes. In a world where reality TV has totally tarnished what it truly means to be a woman, wife, mom and family I have decided to dedicate my career to restablishing the standard and principles of life through my business Elite Living.
My mission is to provide others with the tools they need to achieve Elite Living even while on a tight budget. Subscribers can visit my blog and online webisodes of Elite Living to gain access to the resources they need to grow in the areas of:
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These simple yet elegant Christmas ornaments were a hit with my children's teachers and church youth leaders. They are inexpensive to make and were personalized with the first letter of their last names.
Listed below is my list of supplies I purchased from Michaels.
Remove the silver cap from the ornament.
Cut about 12 inches of garland and gently stuff into ornmant
You will need to gently fold the leaves and insert into ornament.
Place the first letter of your recipients last name on the front of the ornament in the center of the flower and Viola!!!
This
is year two since my little sister passed away and it seems to be harder than
the first. By now, Toshia would have already called me and everyone else a
million times to make sure that we all knew what to bring for Christmas dinner.
She would have told me that I better not cook those nasty fried collard greens
that I brought three Christmas' ago (they
were horrible). She would have already proclaimed herself to be the winner
of this year’s cooking contest (she
thought that she was Paul Deen) AND with she would had said "Gul, you
know I'm bringing my (with a scruff in
her voice) "negro piiiiesss." She was famous for her Butterfinger
and Oreo ice cream pies. Don't ask me why she called them that. The child was
crazy..lol. She was the heartbeat behind our laughter. As a family, we’ve have
to readjust and learn how to enjoy Christmas without Toshia but with her
memory.
Wednesday
of this week was especially hard for me. I found myself getting angry. I didn't
want to be around people. I just wanted my Toshia. I was tired of trying to
keep busy so that I couldn't feel. I went the whole day without crying but that
night I couldn’t hold back anymore. I thank God for my husband and children. My
daughters cooked dinner. My husband rented a movie and before I knew it, we
were all eating and laughing together. I look at my family and friends and God
reminds me that I have a lot of living to do. I have memories to make, a ministry
to fulfill and a calling to walk in.
It's
not fair to our families when we stop, drop and quit. As a matter of fact, it's
selfish on our part. I encourage those of you who mourn to keep moving through
the hurt. Yes, you will have your good days and your not so good days but God
has your back and so does your loved ones who are here with you.
There
are so many things you can do to defeat the Holiday Blues. First, pray and
trust in God's strength. Secondly, you could make or buy a Christmas ornament
to hang in your loved one's memory. Last year, I gave my mom and dad a memory
candle to light during special occasions. We launch balloons into the heavens
on her and her children's birthday. We place a Christmas wreath on her grave
and flowers on Mother's Day. You can make a donation in memory of your loved
one to a church or organization. You could send a card of encouragement to
another grieving family who might be struggling this holiday season. You could
also bless them with a Christmas centerpiece to let them know that you are
thinking of them or invite them to dinner. Get creative and let God be your
guide. We are all to be helpers one to another in this walk of faith.
Just
remember, you are not alone. Grief is a process that has no time limit. It's
different for each person but I've learned it's all about reconditioning your
mind. I don't think you ever get over losing someone; you learn how to live through
it. As much as I would love to have my sister back here on earth, if I had the
choice I wouldn't dare ask God for that. Latoshia is now living in total peace
free from the pains and disappointments of this world. I know that she would
want us to be happy, take care of her children and live life sold out to Christ
knowing that we will see each other again. It’s okay to remember but let us not
forget, we live for God and not for man even when our loved ones pass on, we
must continue to live.
A few weeks ago, Jamie Foxx caused quite a stir when acknowledged President Obama as God, our Lord and Savior.
Various churches, religious organizations and Christian bloggers
immediately voiced their disdain at Jamie's comment. Some of the comments that
followed included rebuke from Foxx's supporters citing "Christians were
too religious and didn't know how to take a joke."
It's amazing how people are so quick to defend man but show so
little reverence to God. The people who supported Foxx's actions only exposed
their ignorance and lack of respect for the word of God. Even as a joke,
calling someone else God, your Savior or your idol insinuates an attempt to
support the Antichrist’s agenda; to try and steal God's identity.
In the United States, identity theft is no laughing matter. It can
cause significant financial, mental and physical ruin. There are agencies who now
offer additional protection from identity theft. When asked about the backlash
regarding his comment Foxx replied "I'm a comic,” [and] sometimes
I think people get a little too tight. And, it's getting a little tougher for
us comedians [because] some people take it and want to make a huge story out of
it, but it's a joke."
Really Jamie?
I couldn't help but wonder how Foxx and his supporters would
feel if another person tried to steal their identity. How would he feel if
someone else took credit for the work he's done as a comedian, singer and
actor. What if I took over his bank account, claiming his money to be mine?
Everyone knows that an actor's name alone in Hollywood is money in the bank.
What if I just took his name? That wouldn't go over so well now would it?
I would be arrested, face charges, serve time and be ordered to pay
restitution. On earth and in most states, identity theft constitutes a
third-degree felony for a first offense. In Heaven, claiming to be God or
acknowledging someone else as God, without repentance, is an eternal sentence to
Hell. At this point all Jamie would have to do is repent. There would be no
need to serve time or pay restitution.
You can't steal God's identity. He's untouchable. Still, there are some things
you just don't say (joking or not). This is my response to those of you who
think we (believers in Christ) are being tight, overly, religious people who no
sense of humor...”
Disrespecting our Lord
and Savior is a no no. We will fight for the Kingdom of God and you will NOT
disrespect our Heavenly Father. Don’t start none won't be none."
Who is a liar
but he that denieth that Jesus is the Christ? He is antichrist, that denieth the
Father and the Son.
1 John 4:3 And every spirit that confesseth not
that Jesus Christ is come in the flesh is not of God: and this is that spirit of
antichrist, whereof ye have heard that it should come; and even now already is
it in the world.
2 John 1:7 For many
deceivers are entered into the world, who confess not that Jesus Christ is come
in the flesh. This is a deceiver and an antichrist.
